a bad day
Today, my roommate and I have a quarrel. It is the second time we are unhappy since I arrived here. However, I think it is not a fight because I still keep silence.
My roommate is a chinese girl, and she falls in love with a bangladeshi guy. I’m not sure whether that guy also loves her; he does not allow my roommate visit his apartment because he is afraid to be seen other people in his country, but he ever invited me to visit him. I can not understand their mind, but it is not my business. The guy almost comes our house every night and goes in the morning. I live in upstairs; the girl at downstairs. The problem is the house door at upstairs and our space is connecting room, so I do not have separate door in my room. When they come in, they can see everything. I have no privacy.
Recently the guy comes here and studies more frequency than before; even when we all go outside. I confuse why he doesn’t study in his own apartment. The first reason I feel angry is the girl gave the guy our keys. The second is that the girl called me because the guy wanted to study in my bureau. I’m so tired to them. I want to ask him if he treats me as my roommate, what is more, when they go to the kitchen in the evening, I can not go to sleep.
I want to stop the trouble, so I have a conversation with my roommate. To avoid producing any other trouble, I control myself to keep calm, though I’m so angry with them. But, I just start to say the trouble which they give to me. That girl turns back and goes downstairs; then the guy goes out. The girl shout at me, she can not protect his friend because of me…and she do not think the guy bother my life…then she close door powerfully and go outside also. I do not say anything because I’m scared and feel sad. I do not consider I do wrong, and I maybe understand her mood. If we still cold war, I’ll move out.
My roommate is a chinese girl, and she falls in love with a bangladeshi guy. I’m not sure whether that guy also loves her; he does not allow my roommate visit his apartment because he is afraid to be seen other people in his country, but he ever invited me to visit him. I can not understand their mind, but it is not my business. The guy almost comes our house every night and goes in the morning. I live in upstairs; the girl at downstairs. The problem is the house door at upstairs and our space is connecting room, so I do not have separate door in my room. When they come in, they can see everything. I have no privacy.
Recently the guy comes here and studies more frequency than before; even when we all go outside. I confuse why he doesn’t study in his own apartment. The first reason I feel angry is the girl gave the guy our keys. The second is that the girl called me because the guy wanted to study in my bureau. I’m so tired to them. I want to ask him if he treats me as my roommate, what is more, when they go to the kitchen in the evening, I can not go to sleep.
I want to stop the trouble, so I have a conversation with my roommate. To avoid producing any other trouble, I control myself to keep calm, though I’m so angry with them. But, I just start to say the trouble which they give to me. That girl turns back and goes downstairs; then the guy goes out. The girl shout at me, she can not protect his friend because of me…and she do not think the guy bother my life…then she close door powerfully and go outside also. I do not say anything because I’m scared and feel sad. I do not consider I do wrong, and I maybe understand her mood. If we still cold war, I’ll move out.
posted by binbin at 8:51 PM
1 Comments:
Binbin,
From what you have told me, your roommate has no consideration of you and the fact that you are also paying rent and should have privacy. The fact that you don't a a separate private room with a door does sound strange. I would suggest you find a new place to live if at all possible.
Sue
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